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On this show…we’re going to slow down and spend some time with something we all carry, whether we admit it out loud or not. Stress. Not just the obvious stress. Not just the big, unavoidable stuff. But the quieter kind. The pressure we put on ourselves. The expectations we quietly stack on moments, conversations, and people we care about, hoping it will all somehow come together just right.
Have you ever walked into something already feeling tense, not because anything was wrong yet, but because you really wanted it to go well? You wanted it to matter. You wanted everyone to feel good. You wanted it to mean something. And somewhere in that wanting, the stress showed up first.
What’s interesting is how often we think stress is coming from what’s happening around us, when in reality, it’s coming from what we’re asking of ourselves inside the moment. The invisible rules we create. The standards we assume we have to meet. The idea that if it isn’t done perfectly, it somehow doesn’t count.
Today, I don’t want to talk about how to get rid of stress. That usually just creates more stress. Instead, I want to talk about how we get through it. How we move with it instead of fighting it. Because the truth is, stress doesn’t always mean something is wrong. Sometimes it means something matters deeply to us.
But here’s where it gets tricky. When caring turns into pressure. When effort turns into self-judgment. When we start believing that what we give is never quite enough.
CHALLENGE: Notice one place this week where you are putting unnecessary pressure on yourself. Pause long enough to ask what you actually have to give, and then give that fully, without apology or self-judgment. Let that be enough.
I Know YOU Can Do It!
🎶 Music that Moves the Message
All original music featured in this episode—including the Encouragementology intro, outro, and interludes—was written and performed by Matt Martino. His work brings warmth and emotion to every episode.
Find more of Matt’s music here:
Wednesday Dec 10, 2025
Wednesday Dec 10, 2025
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On this show…we’re stepping back, not because we’re tired or unmotivated, but because sometimes you have to widen the frame to see the whole picture to give yourself credit while you look ahead. Have you ever been so focused on the next thing, the next goal, the next improvement, that you completely missed everything you’ve already done? It’s easy to do. Especially at the end of a year when life feels like a conveyor belt that never stops moving. One month folds into the next, and before you know it, you’re flipping a calendar and wondering, “Wait… did I actually make any progress this year?”
Some people are wired to always look ahead. They’re scanning the horizon, thinking about what’s next, what hasn’t happened yet, what they still need to check off the list. And while that drive can be motivating, it can also leave you feeling perpetually behind. Like, no matter what you do, it’s never quite enough. Other people look back on a year and think, “Well… nothing big happened,” and use that as evidence that they somehow fell short. But what if the “big thing” wasn’t the point at all? What if the beauty of your year was tucked into the smaller details, the things you barely noticed while they were happening?
That’s what I want to explore today. Because as the world moves faster and faster, it can trick you into believing that if you don’t move at the same speed, you’re somehow failing. But that’s not reality, that’s just noise. The truth is, you’ve done so much more than you think. You’ve shown up in ways that mattered. You’ve grown in ways you didn’t track. You’ve found clarity, endurance, compassion, and creativity in the spaces between the big milestones.
So on this show, let’s take some time to take stock. Let’s give ourselves credit, real credit, for what this past year brought and who we became along the way. And then, with a grounded sense of gratitude, we’ll talk about how to set goals for next year from a place of clarity and confidence, not pressure or comparison.
CHALLENGE: Carve out intentional space and take stock of everything your life holds. Pull out the moments you forgot, honor the quiet work you did, and give yourself the credit you’ve earned. Then, with that full picture in mind, step into the new year with clarity, confidence, and compassion for the person you are becoming.
I Know YOU Can Do It!
🎶 Music that Moves the Message
All original music featured in this episode—including the Encouragementology intro, outro, and interludes—was written and performed by Matt Martino. His work brings warmth and emotion to every episode.
Find more of Matt’s music here:
Friday Dec 05, 2025
Friday Dec 05, 2025
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On this show…we’re talking about something most of us feel deeply but rarely pause long enough to examine: how we honor the gift of time. Have you ever caught yourself saying, “Wow… time is really flying by,” yet found yourself spending whole stretches of your life on things that don’t matter, don’t fill you, or don’t reflect who you’re becoming? It’s that strange contradiction; we feel time slipping, yet we still give so much of it away to worry, distraction, obligation, or drama that never pays back.
This episode was sparked by a conversation with a friend about entering a new season of life where time feels less like a resource and more like a gift, something to handle with care. I shared this year’s motto with him, “Just because I can doesn’t mean I want to or have to,” to which he said, “You’re preaching to the choir”. WOW, I wasn’t alone; we were both experiencing the same thing at the same time. There was a time when saying yes to everything felt like the responsible thing to do. It felt like proof that we were pulling our weight, showing up, and making things happen. Now, many of us want to choose more intentionally, not slowing down necessarily, but selecting the people, projects, and commitments that bring meaning.
And underneath all of that is the idea of stewardship: being entrusted with something precious and choosing to invest it wisely. If time is a gift, how do we honor it? How do we invest it in what truly matters instead of what simply demands attention?
That’s what we’re exploring today. Not from a place of guilt or pressure but from a place of awareness and gratitude. This episode is about shifting from simply spending time to investing it. And choosing what truly matters.
CHALLENGE: Honor the gift of time by choosing what aligns with your values and letting go of what doesn’t. Invest wisely. Protect what matters. And receive each moment with gratitude.
I Know YOU Can Do It!
🎶 Music that Moves the Message
All original music featured in this episode—including the Encouragementology intro, outro, and interludes—was written and performed by Matt Martino. His work brings warmth and emotion to every episode.
Find more of Matt’s music here:
Wednesday Nov 26, 2025
Wednesday Nov 26, 2025
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On this show…we’re talking about something that feels simple on the surface but has quietly gotten complicated over the years; the lost art of human connection. Let me ask you this. Have you ever caught yourself choosing the easier, more convenient option even when you knew the real thing would’ve felt better? Maybe it was sending a text instead of having a conversation. Maybe it was Googling an answer instead of asking someone for help. Or maybe, without even realizing it, you’ve replaced community with convenience.
I grew up in a time when your “search engine” was the person standing next to you. You needed directions? You asked someone. You wanted a restaurant recommendation? You talked to the locals. You had a random question or a big idea or a wondering moment? You pondered it. You reasoned it out. You let your mind chew on it. And in all those moments, even the small ones, connection happened.
But today? We can outsource nearly everything: information, support, company, and even our curiosity. And while convenience is wonderful, it’s also quietly replacing the face-to-face interactions that used to stitch our communities together. I don’t believe humans were designed to live isolated lives. We’re built for each other. To feel for others, to be felt by others, and to feel ourselves more fully because someone sees us.
So on this episode, we’re exploring the slow drift toward disconnection and how we can intentionally build bridges back to community, purpose, and genuine human interaction. Because convenience might be efficient. But connection? That’s what makes us feel alive.
Let’s take a moment to define what I mean by “disconnecting.” I’m not talking about running away to the mountains or deleting every app on your phone. I’m talking about when convenience slowly replaces connection until you look around and realize you’re not engaging with real people the way you used to.
Connection is more than being in contact. It’s being in a community where you feel known, seen, valued, and plugged into something bigger than yourself. It’s being able to walk into a room and feel the energy shift because you’re part of a group.
Where are people getting that today? For some, it’s online communities, and that’s not all bad. But many have drifted away from in-person spaces that used to offer grounding and belonging. Church is a big one. And I get it. “Organized religion” has become a loaded phrase. Many people stepped away from the institution and accidentally stepped away from the community too.
The real loss? Not just the rituals but the relationships. The potlucks. The check-ins. The encouragement. The sense of purpose that comes from helping, serving, or even just showing up. Without those touchpoints, it becomes easy to float. Easy to isolate. Easy to forget what it feels like to be needed or known.
And yet, most people say they want purpose. They want belonging. They want to feel plugged in. But those things require participation. They require interaction. They require us to be in the room. So how do we start finding our way back?
CHALLENGE: So, I challenge you… to intentionally choose one moment this week where you replace convenience with connection. Look for the conversation, the eye contact, the opportunity to help, or the open door to step back into community. Be brave enough to show up, be present, and let yourself be needed again.
I Know YOU Can Do It!
🎶 Music that Moves the Message
All original music featured in this episode—including the Encouragementology intro, outro, and interludes—was written and performed by Matt Martino. His work brings warmth and emotion to every episode.
Find more of Matt’s music here:
Thursday Nov 20, 2025
Thursday Nov 20, 2025
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On this show…we’re exploring something that shows up in almost every part of life, yet we rarely sit down and separate it out: the difference between critical and cynical. Have you ever noticed how easy it is to take something at face value, especially when the information comes fast, polished, and wrapped with confidence? Or maybe you’ve had the opposite reaction, where you hear something new and immediately think, “Yeah right…” and shut it down before it even has a chance. Somewhere between believing everything and doubting everything is the space we’re trying to find today.
We live in a world that delivers opinions like a conveyor belt; nonstop, loud, and often disguised as fact. Articles, posts, videos, conversations, “experts,” your cousin’s cousin, all chiming in with certainty. And if you’ve ever wondered, “How am I supposed to know what’s actually true?” you’re not alone. It can feel overwhelming, and honestly, it’s tempting to pick one of two defaults: go along for the ride without questioning anything, or armor up and become suspicious of everything. But neither one really leads us to clarity.
The more I think about it, the more I realize how important it is to bring your own critical eye to what you see, hear, and even feel. Not in a confrontational way, not in a “let me prove you wrong” way, but in a grounded, thoughtful way. It’s your job and my job to ask questions, explore, and do a little digging. To understand not just what might be true, but what might be false. To recognize that believing something at face value can be irresponsible, especially when your decisions, your peace of mind, and your perspective are on the line.
But here’s where today’s topic gets interesting: being critical and being cynical are not the same thing. One opens the door to growth. The other slams it shut. One helps you navigate the world with clarity. The other keeps you stuck behind a wall of distrust. And if you’ve ever felt yourself drifting toward cynicism, maybe from burnout, disappointment, or just being tired of sorting through so much noise, you’re not alone there either.
CHALLENGE: Take one moment this week to notice which window you’re looking through. When new information comes your way, pause before you react. Ask yourself whether you’re leaning in with curiosity or leaning back with cynicism. Choose the version of you that trusts your ability to think, explore, and decide for yourself.
I Know YOU Can Do It!
🎶 Music that Moves the Message
All original music featured in this episode—including the Encouragementology intro, outro, and interludes—was written and performed by Matt Martino. His work brings warmth and emotion to every episode.
Find more of Matt’s music here:
Tuesday Nov 11, 2025
Tuesday Nov 11, 2025
SHOW NOTES:
On this show…we’re talking about speaking life. How the words we use, both out loud and in our heads, can either drain our energy or feed our strength. Have you ever noticed how quickly one negative thought can spiral into an entire mood? One complaint, one worry, one “what if,” and before you know it, you’re swimming in tension and exhaustion. It’s wild how something as simple as language can shape how we feel, think, and even heal.
I’ve always believed that we’re more powerful than we realize. The body, mind, and spirit are in constant conversation with one another. Every thought sends a message. Every word carries weight. And when we speak life, when we choose words of hope, belief, and gratitude, we set off a chain reaction toward peace and restoration. I’m not saying life suddenly becomes easy or that we can positive-think our way out of every challenge. But I do believe that we can rise above chaos and confusion by intentionally choosing the voice we let lead.
We’ve all seen what happens when negativity takes over. Worry turns into anxiety, anxiety into stress, and stress into physical strain. Cortisol spikes, sleep suffers, and our patience runs thin. It’s like our entire system is on alert, reacting to a story we keep repeating even if that story isn’t true. But what if we flipped the script? What if we started calling life as we want to see it, not ignoring reality, but speaking possibility into it?
There’s a fine line between being honest about what’s happening and being captive to it. You can acknowledge the storm and still believe in the sun. That’s what speaking life is about: setting your internal thermostat instead of being the thermometer that just reacts to everything around you. Choosing peace even when the world feels loud. Trusting your resilience, your purpose, your ability to heal.
Faith-filled words often come before faith-filled feelings.
CHALLENGE: Be intentional with your words this week. Speak life into every situation: into your thoughts, your relationships, and your dreams. When negativity creeps in, stop it mid-sentence and choose words that reflect faith, hope, and healing instead. Let your language lead your life in the direction you want to grow.
I Know YOU Can Do It!
🎶 Music that Moves the Message
All original music featured in this episode—including the Encouragementology intro, outro, and interludes—was written and performed by Matt Martino. His work brings warmth and emotion to every episode.
Find more of Matt’s music here:
Tuesday Nov 04, 2025
Tuesday Nov 04, 2025
SHOW NOTES:
On this show… we’re flipping the script and asking, are you giving as much as you’re taking? Have you ever felt like life just isn’t fair? Like you’re stuck playing the hand you were dealt while others seem to coast through with a royal flush? Maybe you’ve caught yourself thinking, “Why do they get all the breaks?” or “When is it my turn?” It’s easy to feel that way when we’re hyper-aware of what we’re not getting, but how often do we pause to consider what we’re giving?
Sometimes, entitlement sneaks in wearing the mask of fairness. We may believe we’re owed something: more time, more praise, more help, because we’ve been working hard, showing up, or just surviving. But here’s the deeper question: are we creating the kind of balance we’re craving, or are we tipping the scales with our expectations? This episode isn’t about guilt-tripping or grinding it out harder. It’s about awareness. About getting curious, not critical, and asking, “Am I contributing to the harmony I want to experience in my life and relationships?” Let’s explore what it really means to give as much as you take… and why that shift in focus might be the key to unlocking more purpose, joy, and momentum.
And here’s another angle we’ll explore: how feeling stuck or shortchanged can morph into bitterness and blame if we aren’t careful. That mindset can convince us we’re powerless, resigned to our circumstances, when really, we have far more influence than we think. What happens when we trade frustration for curiosity? When we stop asking “Why not me?” and start asking “What can I do?” That’s where things start to shift.
The B-side asks: “What if your version of 'giving' is actually masking a fear of being seen as selfish?”
Here’s the twist: the most generous people are often the ones who’ve learned to give from a full place—not a place of obligation, fear, or performance.
CHALLENGE: Take an honest inventory of your energetic exchange with the world. Where are you contributing, and where are you simply consuming? Identify one area this week where you can shift from expectation to contribution — whether it’s your time, your presence, your encouragement, or your effort. Give without waiting to feel ready, and see what shifts within you as a result.
I Know YOU Can Do It!
🎶 Music that Moves the Message
All original music featured in this episode—including the Encouragementology intro, outro, and interludes—was written and performed by Matt Martino. His work brings warmth and emotion to every episode.
Find more of Matt’s music here:
Tuesday Oct 28, 2025
Tuesday Oct 28, 2025
SHOW NOTES:
On this show…we’re exploring the power of pausing to see what rest can really reveal. We’ll be slowing things down. Literally. In a world where “fast” is the default setting: fast food, fast lanes, fast Wi-Fi, it’s easy to feel like we’re always rushing. Have you ever found yourself impatient in the “wrong” line at the store, agitated by the buffering wheel, or frustrated that someone isn’t replying fast enough? It’s almost as if our value is tied to how quickly we can move through life.
But then, without warning, we hear ourselves say something like, “Where did the time go?” or “Life is just flying by.” Strange, right? We’re racing to get to the next thing…only to mourn how fast it’s all passing.
This week, we’re hitting the brakes because maybe it’s not just about productivity. Maybe there’s something hidden in the quiet. A secret in the stillness. A truth that’s hard to hear when everything is moving too fast.
We’ll dig into what it means to find the middle lane, not stuck, not speeding, but moving with intention. Together, we’ll ask: What am I missing when I never slow down? What could rest reveal if I actually gave myself permission to pause?
And if rest feels like a luxury you can’t afford or a guilty pleasure you never let yourself enjoy, then this is the episode for you.
Ready to shift gears?
What does rest feel like to me?
Does it feel luxurious? Lazy? Guilt-ridden? Productive? Unfamiliar?
Now, here’s a trickier one:
When was the last time I paused, on purpose, not because I was forced to, but because I chose to?
CHALLENGE: Press pause—on purpose. Not because you’re burned out or forced to stop, but because you choose to check in with yourself. Create space this week for a moment of stillness. Let it be awkward, quiet, or unfamiliar if it needs to be. Then listen. Not to the world’s demands—but to your own voice, your own rhythm, your own needs.
I Know YOU Can Do It!
🎶 Music that Moves the Message
All original music featured in this episode—including the Encouragementology intro, outro, and interludes—was written and performed by Matt Martino. His work brings warmth and emotion to every episode.
Find more of Matt’s music here:
Tuesday Oct 21, 2025
Tuesday Oct 21, 2025
SHOW NOTES:
On this show…we’re learning when to listen, when to help, and when to just let it breathe. Have you ever found yourself halfway through someone’s story and already mentally rolling out the action plan? They’re still explaining how overwhelmed they feel, and you’ve already drafted three possible solutions, ranked by efficiency. Guilty? Me too.
If you’re a natural-born fixer, hearing a problem can feel like a challenge to solve — like someone just lobbed a ball your way and you’re already mid-pitch with a winning strategy. But here’s the thing: not everyone wants a playbook. Sometimes, they just want a bench to sit on, a shoulder to lean on, and someone to nod and say, “That sounds really tough.”
So how do you know when to jump in and brainstorm, and when to just… be present? When do you absorb like a sounding board, bounce back ideas like a springboard, or wind up like a pitcher ready to throw? And how do we know if we’re solving the real issue or just rearranging the symptoms?
This week, we’re exploring what it really means to support someone in their moment of need. Let’s pull back the lens and see if we can’t shrink this idea into focus. Maybe the key isn’t always to act, but to understand. Maybe the most powerful support we can offer doesn’t come from solving, but from seeing.
CHALLENGE: When someone shares something heavy or hard with you, resist the reflex to fix it. Instead, pause and ask: “Do you want ideas, or do you just need me to listen?” Give space. Offer presence. Trust that just being there might be exactly what they need.
I Know YOU Can Do It!
🎶 Music that Moves the Message
All original music featured in this episode—including the Encouragementology intro, outro, and interludes—was written and performed by Matt Martino. His work brings warmth and emotion to every episode.
Find more of Matt’s music here:
Tuesday Oct 14, 2025
Tuesday Oct 14, 2025
SHOW NOTES:
On this show…we’re exploring something that has always been at the heart of Encouragementology: the simple, powerful, and essential need for connection. Not surface-level chatter or algorithmic affirmations, but real, human-to-human interaction. The kind that looks you in the eye, senses your mood, leans in when you’re struggling, and celebrates when you’re rising.
Have you ever found yourself surrounded by communication but still feeling completely alone? Maybe your phone lights up all day with notifications, you scroll past hundreds of smiling faces and inspirational quotes, and yet… you can’t remember the last time you had a meaningful, face-to-face conversation. Or maybe you’ve poured your heart out to your AI assistant lately, been met with warm, empathetic responses, and then struggled to hold eye contact with a real person at the grocery store. If by then… we’re still going into grocery stores.
Let me be honest. Encouragementology didn’t start because I had a collection of clever phrases I thought belonged on coffee mugs or T-shirts. It started because I deeply, truly believe people need people. Encouragement isn’t just a mindset; it’s a shared experience. I’ve led Women Connect, a support group for women helping women find direction. I continue to run Senior Connect, where we create space to combat senior isolation. Because despite all the tools and tech at our fingertips, the greatest impact still happens across the table, not across a screen.
We’re in a time when AI can be more than a tool; it can be a companion. And that’s both exciting and… something worth pausing to think about. When your virtual assistant knows your preferences, mirrors your emotions, supports your every dream…but your real-life partner barely listens, what’s that doing to your sense of connection? When the digital feels safer than the physical, how do we stay human?
Today, we’ll unpack those questions. Not to scare you away from tech or shame you for turning to tools that help, but to remind you of something essential: we were built for connection. Not just convenience.
So let’s talk about it.
CHALLENGE: Step outside the comfort of curated connection this week and make a move toward real, human interaction. Send a message, make a call, show up in person; whatever it looks like, let it be intentional.
I Know YOU Can Do It!
🎶 Music that Moves the Message
All original music featured in this episode—including the Encouragementology intro, outro, and interludes—was written and performed by Matt Martino. His work brings warmth and emotion to every episode.
Find more of Matt’s music here: